A textbook on emergency medicine, Tintinalli's, devotes a chapter to grief, death, and dying. I found one of the paragraphs uplifting:
In helping families confront death, the physician has an opportunity heal the living.There are data which demonstrate that properly performed death notifications may mitigate the impact of substantial negative effects on the surviving family members. For example, well-delivered death notification may reduce the incidence of PTSD in sudden death, particularly those involving the loss of a spouse or the death of a child. As emergency physicians, we must begin to think of death notification not as a difficult conclusion to an already difficult case but as an opportunity for prevention: reducing the incidence of secondary trauma to the family by the way in which they learn of a death.